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Category Archives: Relationships
How To Befriend Anyone
When Ben Franklin was running for Clerk of the General Assembly, one of his colleagues delivered a speech to the legislature skewering him. This was a problem, because this was a guy Franklin couldn’t afford to just start a feud … Continue reading
The Idiocy of Worrying About Your Legacy
Marcus Aurelius, the 16th Emperor of Rome, the most powerful man on earth for a time, kept a journal of thoughts and notes for himself, to keep himself grounded. The twelve “books” worth of writings cover a broad range of … Continue reading
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Tagged Goal, Legacy, Marcus Aurelius, Meditations, Purpose
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Don’t Wait Until It’s Too Late: Define Your Priorities Now
Some good advice about priorities from Clayton Christensen over at the HBR: Over the years I’ve watched the fates of my HBS classmates from 1979 unfold; I’ve seen more and more of them come to reunions unhappy, divorced, and alienated … Continue reading
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Tagged Family, Goal, HBR, Priorities, relationships, Time
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Your Brand Is Irrelevant
Branding has been tremendously valuable over the last 100 years or so. Even during the last five or ten years, pundits have been telling people to turn themselves into brands. Brands are identifiable, they stand for something, they signify quality. … Continue reading
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Tagged Access, Art, Branding, Brands, Business, Marketing, Persuasion, Relevance
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How to Beat Procrastination, Maintain Balance and Avoid Burnout
How do Olympic athletes train for the biggest event of their lives? What separates the top tennis players in the world from those that are merely world class? A big part of it is what they don’t do. If you … Continue reading
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Tagged Burnout, Power of Full Engagement, Procrastination, Productivity, Techniques, Work Life Balance
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How To Get Anyone To Help You Do Anything
“If you want to build a ship, don’t drum up the men to gather wood, divide the work and give orders. Instead, teach them to yearn for the vast and endless sea.†– Antoine de Saint-Exupery
Posted in Advice, Business, Food For Thought, Negotiation, Persuasion, Quotes, Rationality, Relationships, Self-Improvement
Tagged Motivation, Negotiation, Persuasion, Productivity, Quotes
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How To Meet Your Heroes and Win Mentors
Have you noticed that little kids can do just about anything they want? There’s a mountain of stories about young kids getting an audience with some business or government leader simply because they wrote a letter. Successful people, and people … Continue reading
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Tagged Communication, Hero, Language, Meeting, Mentor, Never Eat Alone, relationships, Seth Godin
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Yes, It Matters, Even If No One Sees
For the first thirty years of your life, you make your habits. For the last thirty years of your life, your habits make you. – Old Hindu Proverb We tell kids that their homework is important, even when we know … Continue reading
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Tagged Advice, Character, Habit, Priorities, Proverb
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How to Earn Their Trust and Stop the Nagging
There’s generally a big lag time between the time you make a change and the time that change is recognized. You undoubtedly noticed this as a child. You demonstrate you know something, or know how to perform some task, but … Continue reading
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Tagged Goal, Growth, mastery, relationships, Skill, Trust, Wow
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Minimum Viable Personality
Excellent thoughts here on cultivating personality in your products. Note that just about everything can be thought of as a product. If you produce reports for a living, the report is your product. You can create a brand out of … Continue reading
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Tagged Art, Business, Creativity, Personality, relationships
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Stop: You Don’t Know His Motivation Until You Ask
A friend of mine once bought a house for roughly half of what it was worth. The market was still booming. The seller certainly could have gotten more. Why would anyone make such a terrible deal? John G. emailed to … Continue reading
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Tagged Interaction, Negotiation, people, relationships
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Should I Go To Medical School?
A lot of bright young people consider going into medicine. Like any profession, it has its downsides, but, at least to me, it was pretty obvious that those downsides were much bigger than in many other fields. But, not having … Continue reading
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Tagged Doctor, Mecial School, Medicine, Physician, Question
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Relationship Rot
More pithiness from Seth Godin: Most partnerships don’t end up in court. Most friendships don’t end in a fight. Most customers don’t leave in a huff. Instead, when one party feels underappreciated, or perhaps taken advantage of, she stops showing … Continue reading
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Tagged Appreciation, Recognition, relationships, Seth Godin
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On Handling Critics
Anyone who produces art, or voices opinions, or does anything publicly, will have critics. Guaranteed. I wrote a post about frugality that got a tiny bit of attention on the web and was bombarded with insults. Did I care? Well, … Continue reading
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Tagged Advice, Criticism, Ego, Quotes
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Priorities
Power is out. Pretty much everywhere south of Los Angeles. Our entire operation shut down immediately. Even in an office where everyone basically just reads and writes all day, a loss of power is totally crippling. There was nowhere to … Continue reading
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Tagged Church, Meditation, Priorities, Reevaluate
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