Author Archives: AJ Kessler

You Can Decide To Be Happy

Good listen:

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The Importance of the Individual

Some interesting emails with readers about Dokkodo, and the merits of a life of service.  Service is important, no doubt, But I still put the individual first.  After all, service of any kind is, eventually, for the benefit of individuals. … Continue reading

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What’s the Upside?

When their money is at stake, people often ask what the downside is.  How much can I lose?  Then they weigh this against the upside.  How much can I make? Strangely, when money isn’t at stake, people don’t really seem … Continue reading

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How Photographers Actually Spend Their Time

Note that this is true for literally every profession, especially the “glamorous” ones (click to enlarge): HT: Chase Jarvis

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The Path of Aloneness

Miyamoto Musashi is regarded as the best swordsman in Japanese history, and one of the greatest warriors in history.  He was also a devout strategist.  Written during the week he spent preparing for his own death, a period in which … Continue reading

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…But No One Else Is Doing It

It’s scary if you’re the only one doing something.  The immediate thought is that you must be doing something wrong.  Surely, if you were right, someone else would be doing it. Sometimes, that’s true.  Nobody is selling bacon-flavored oxygen because … Continue reading

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How To Write

More excellent advice from David Ogilvy, founder of one of the preeminent advertising firms in the world: The better you write, the higher you go in Ogilvy & Mather. People who think well, write well. Woolly minded people write woolly memos, woolly letters and … Continue reading

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Screen Real Estate, Productivity, and Idiots

Ran across these thoughts on how minimizing your screen real estate might actually boost your productivity: Having a big screen is a good excuse to stick a Twitter client here, mail client there, have list of files pane constantly open, … Continue reading

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Fear Breeds Superstition

Superstition, then, is engendered, preserved, and fostered by fear.  If anyone desire an example, let him take Alexander, who only began superstitiously to seek guidance from seers, when he first learnt to fear fortune in the passes of Sysis (Curtius, … Continue reading

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Problem Solving In The Real World

From about 5 years old to somewhere between 18 and 30 years old, we’re asked to solve problems in some specific way in order to demonstrate we understand what the professor was paid to teach us.  You’re allowed to use … Continue reading

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Atheism 2.0: Religious Benefits for the Secular Life

The video, embedded below, is difficult to quote, but touches on some of the issues we’ve discussed before.  Definitely worth soaking in:

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Who Am I

When I see those paparazzi pictures of Fat Kevin Federline, sometimes sporting dopey cornrows, sometimes waddling across some anonymous poolside deck with beer in hand, I imagine a guy who does not know who he is, what he is supposed … Continue reading

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What You Want

Alain de Botton with a good reminder: One of the interesting things about success is that we think we know what it means. A lot of the time our ideas about what it would mean to live successfully are not … Continue reading

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Solve The Right Problem

In 1959, long before the X-prize, Henry Kremer offered 50,000 pounds to anyone who could finally build a flying machine powered only by the pilot’s body power.  All an entrant had to do was fly in a figure eight around … Continue reading

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Gift Giving

The measure of a good gift is in its appropriateness, not its cost. The corollary to this is if you receive an expensive gift from a wealthier friend, you’re not obligated to give him something of equal value in return.  You’re only … Continue reading

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