Author Archives: AJ Kessler

Don’t Waste It

There’s roughly 6 billion people on the planet who would trade places with you in an instant.  They wouldn’t even have to think twice. There’s an unlimited buffet in front of us, with anything we could possibly imagine, right there … Continue reading

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There Are No Shortcuts

If you searched for diet books right now on amazon, how many results do you think you’d get?  Diet books are pretty popular, remember.  Definitely more than a couple hundred, right?  I would have guessed a couple thousand.  I would … Continue reading

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Keeping It Real: People Want Sincerity, Not Honesty

For almost all of hip hop’s existence, rappers and artists were judged, at least to some degree, on how “real” they were. “Real”, of course, didn’t mean honest or sincere, but was specifically defined as having “the right type of … Continue reading

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The Purpose Of Life

I believe that the very purpose of life is to be happy. – Dalai Lama This quote has been dredged up again recently, floating around the internet for the last few weeks drawing criticism.  Many people, especially, it seems, minimalists, … Continue reading

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Choose Your Friends Wisely

Who has a bigger influence on the person you turn out to be: your parents or your friends? Since at least the days of Freud, psychologists believed parents were the overwhelming factor in how their children turned out.  But, it … Continue reading

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The Best The World Has To Offer?

Most people are satisfied with the best the world has to offer. There’s actually quite a bit of social pressure to be satisfied by the best.  I’ve eaten with people at some of the world’s best restaurants who refuse to … Continue reading

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For Granted

It’s dark out.  Your windows are steamed over, caused by the temperature differential between your warm bedroom and the cold morning.  Your alarm clock trips, and your favorite song blasts from it speakers.  You wake up, stumble out of bed, … Continue reading

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Wax-On, Wax-Off

In The Karate Kid, Mr. Miyagi has Daniel-San spend his first four days of training waxing his cars, sanding his floors, and painting his house.  As Daniel-San is about to quit in frustration, Mr. Miyagi reveals that what he’s really … Continue reading

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It’s Not Persistence, It’s Commitment

What would you do if you got rejected, not once or twice, or even a dozen or two dozen times?  What would you do if got rejected 60 times? Kathryn Stockett decided she was going to succeed, no matter what: … Continue reading

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The World Was Built By People No Smarter Than You

When you grow up, you tend to get told that the world is the way it is, and your life is just to live your life inside the world; try not to bash into the walls too much, try to … Continue reading

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What Scares Us Most

There is no child on the planet who is afraid of the dark. They’re afraid of not being able to see what’s around them.  They’re afraid of the unknown. We all are. While fear of pain drives us to act … Continue reading

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Life Is Always About Starting At The Bottom

Remember when you were in 8th or 9th grade?  King of middle school?  Big man on campus?  Remember what happened just a short year later? Back to the bottom of the totem pole. You were no longer bigger than all … Continue reading

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30,000 Days, If You’re Lucky

You only get about 30,000 days, if you’re lucky.  If you’re reading this, you’ve probably got less than 20,000 days left. That’s if you’re lucky. You might get cancer; you might have a heart attack or a stroke; you might … Continue reading

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Plans Are Good, Goals Are Better

Plans, the individual steps you think you’re going to take to accomplish something, are good.  But, plans have this nasty tendency to fail pretty regularly.  One of the steps just wasn’t feasible, or other people don’t do what they’re supposed … Continue reading

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Anxiety Comes Only From Within

Today I escaped from anxiety.  Or no, I discarded it, because it was within me, in my own perceptions — not outside. – Marcus Aurelius, Meditations Book 9 ¶ 13

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